Saturday, May 17, 2014

Be Quiet My Child!

You turn any page of the history of man. Not the history of kings and governments, nor that of wars and elections. I mean the history of the mundane life of man. You do find, amidst many stories of family feuds and romance, the stories of the marvellous childhood of man. The incidents from the episodes of childhood are something so capturing and luring to listen to or read about. In fact, that's what you may overhear if you pass by a house which might have temporarily forgotten the tussles of ordinary life. What you hear may contain these phrases: "You know what varun did last night? ...." or "Oh! I can't contain myself laughing. He gave me such a reply that I was dumbstruck for a moment." .... or "These days children are really par excellent when you compare our childhood days, aren't they?" The stories are endless. One more such anecdote, I feel, is worthy of such mention here in my blog entry so that the readers savour the same amusement that we experienced when it occurred.

Here is the naughtiest child of my uncle's family. He is my uncle's grandson. That's his son's son. Now he is around four. Even when he was three years old, I chanced to visit my aunt's where my uncle's family too was present for some occasion. We all were in an air conditioned room chit chatting with each other and eating the sumptuous meal served to us. In the mean while, the 'little master' kept himself busy checking the door of that room closed after every visit of someone or the other to the room. He could not shut his mouth as usual. He kept dictating the rules of confining oneself in the air conditioned room, the important one being that the door should be kept tightly closed so as to save energy and to keep the room cool enough. That's what he had learnt from his maternal grandfather. So he was busy handing down the knowledge to all the members of the family present there.

Not able to stand by it any more, my cousin, my aunt's son and an adult nearing his thirties, said, "For the room to remain cool, it is better you be quiet for sometime so that it doesn't become too hot here." Pat came the reply from our hero: "Hmm.. if that's so, then everyone should be cooperative... all of us should eat quietly without talking to each other!"

Of course, you could hear the blast of laughter ensuing the child's wise reply.

Monday, April 28, 2014

Global rise of Citizen Media.


With more than 70,000 newspapers and over 500 satellite channels and 80 news channels, India is already the biggest media market in the world; but such robust growth has come at the cost of accuracy, journalistic ethics and probity. The mainstream media has been shallow, inaccurate and sometimes damagingly obtrusive.

Dr. Amartya Sen, quoted wrongly by media twice, has strongly condemned the Indian media for its professional laxity which leads to inaccuracies and mistakes, and the class bias in its choice. Most seriously, there is the scourge called paid news, which mainly involves politicians and corporate firms – paying for positive coverage in the run-up to the elections and corporate benefits.

This commonplace situation applies to the mainstream media across the world. Recently, the media in the US has been condemned for under-reporting the number of family members and friends that joined the Obamas on the extravagant VIP tour to Africa which was rather a sightseeing trip than a philanthropic visit.

As common men, we have long heard the journalists through different media. But only a few of us thought of responding to the situation. Thinking can be done on chair; but to act, now with the advent of the Citizen Media, you simply have to come to your fingers on the mouse, follow the technocrati tag of your choice and voice your opinions.

Desi Pundit is one such group blog that covers India related topics and is authored by mostly Indian bloggers who live around the world. Kubana.net is another group blog written by Zimbabwean activists who demand an end to the Mugabe dictatorship. Chinese blogger Roland Soong has become an important bridge between China and the West - thanks to his blog where he translates various newspaper articles and blog posts from Chinese to English. Like these groups, You, I or anyone can write the pages of history of our nation and also the entire world.


We are living in the best of times to realize the long dreamt empowerment of citizens through media. Though there are different interest groups, like literature, arts, music or technology, the global rise of citizen media is in fact attributed to the social renaissance brought about it through thousands of activist bloggers across the world. Let this democratic media be on the rise to realize the dream called democracy to the fullest!                            

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Amba


I ran in the air almost not touching the ground down the street where I resided with my guardian parents. I ran down that street so many times in my life. I never found peace where I was brought up. So I ran down… to where the street took me straight through the second crossing turning left of which took me to my grandmother. I loved my grandmother. I loved her when I was a child. I was angry with her many times. After coming far away from her out of her sight or out of my sight, I loved her more and more. She is never out of sight and out of mind. She always stayed in me as a symbol of passionate love. She had many good qualities and so many undesirable qualities. But none of her undesirable qualities directly affected me. Even if they affected me, they must have affected my ego. That’s it. Nothing else. Ego is not so important. What is important is love. The love that she poured on me. The love that she gave me right from my childhood. I always felt her love. I felt her love in her talk to me, in her attending to me, in her breath, in her whole mind and universe of thought she had me in her. This was clear in her words and actions and even her breathing.

She died last year 2012. I don’t want to be particular about dates. Time is something which never went into my head. I can’t catch up with it. That is my weakness. I lost her in the middle of last year. That’s it. This is 2013. The middle of 2013. I still cannot forget the way I responded to her death. It is something which came in me out of nowhere. I was angry with her for some unfair distribution of property. But I tell you she asked me for a thousand rupees one day. I could not give her due to some strong reasons in me at that time. Probably I thought that money should never come in our way of love. So I did not say a word after that. I definitely did not remain selfish. I had some strong reasons. But this disturbed me a lot. I got her some blanket later. But I could not give her money when she wanted. I cried in me. But I didn’t speak anything about it to her. Because I love her so much. I continued to love. I don’t want to explain many things to her. But just love. She knew my love for her. She too never spoke a word about any money which I couldn’t give. But the property distribution brought anger in me not because of her but because of her wrong notions generated by people around her and her blind faith in it. But my anger is just a small leaf in front of the sun of my love which shone more and more as I stopped talking to her. I stopped talking because again I thought that money should not be a matter of talk between our love for each other. I thought only of her love. I never thought of any opposite of that. I loved her so much. That’s it.

I saw her lying dead inside a cabin decorated with many garlands. She looked beautiful with love. My grandmother. Angeramba – I call her in my mother tongue Sourashtra. I called her, “Angeramba.” I did not cry much, because when you love deeply, you have no time to weep. That’s the way I felt. If I wept it might be probably to get someone’s attention, I felt. My love for her is secretive. Why? Because I don’t want anyone to question me for my love for my dear grandmother. "Look, if you love your grandmother, then …………” Such conditions I never like. I love her whether the world accepts it or not. I touched her hand, her skin as I sat with her in the mortuary van. The skin, the hand that touched me, that touched me and cuddled me, and poured a lot of love and affection. I felt love. It was so lovely to touch her. I forgot all my anger. What remained in my heart was only one whisper, “Angeramba”. I did not try to find any meaning for my feelings. I felt only my calling her affectionately, -“Angeramba”. Nothing else. I felt happy that I saw her as she was entering her electrified cremation chamber. I said, “Don’t worry. Your body will not feel the burn. Only your bosom burnt all these years with love. Go inside. Complete your journey. Continue to live in me till I join you here.” I said to her from outside the cabin looking at her through the transparent partition. “Amba (mother) You are going. Say my hello to amba, your daughter who is there already. You are joining your daughter. I’ll join you both later. Amba… My love…”

(Sorry, if love has no grammar and love can’t be edited)

Monday, July 22, 2013

Trust
I trust you 
because I have decided 
to trust you, 
no matter 
you trust me or not.
This is true. 
That is trust.

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

The dew dares a leap

The dew dares a leap into the sun
At the horizon of dawn time;
It wills but to speak only in silence
To the warm and affectionate sunrays
That cuddles it early in the morning.
The dew captures the soul of the sun,
The reflection of which glows lustrous
And sequins the leaves
Like the pure spirit shimmers
The human flesh!
Hence, it dares a fresh leap
To embrace the rays of the Sun.

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Flight

The birds fly through the clouds
To leap beyond the bounds;
What a rapid transit
When there is no haunt to visit;
Yet the flight is endless
Though the time is ruthless;
The goal has its credit
That there is a common verdict;
Hence there is a flight
To leap beyond the light
To plunge into the vacuum
To waken the dormant life at bottom!

Friday, December 19, 2008

You are a distant mirage

You are a distant mirage
A fleeing dream
A detached love
Bleak passion
A star in the space, untouched
But followed for the
Beaming rays of wisdom;
Charming the sailor
Storing curiosities unexplored
Inspiring awesome adventure
Sowing the seeds of genius
Yea, ye, a miracle
God’s indigenous ingenious creation!

A flower is thy incarnation
Spreading pollens of passion
Lined with thirst and quest for knowledge;
Million blossoms
In an instance of thy smile;
Eyes lodging
Unparalleled unfathomable depth
Of love and kindness;
Yea, ye, a distant mirage
For a forsaken love --
A vector, moving endless
From the point of the heart,
Bereft!